Advice for Mother of Multiples

Welcoming a baby is this world is probably the most joyful experience for you and your partner. What if you get more than one, say two or three babies at once? Well, think about that. The joy multiplies, so do the work and responsibility. Being parents of multiples can be overwhelming. Here are seven pieces of advice for mothers who have just got more happiness than they could have asked for.

1. Join a club.

You should find a twin (or multiples) club as soon as you know you will get more than one angel. You will get to be in a place with other mothers of multiples, who can give you practical and precious advice on parenting. In a club, you can:

• Share your feelings and difficulties.
• Get help from expert mothers.
• Join expectant mother classes.
• Buy baby’s clothes and products for a lower price.

2. Get a double stroller (or more).

Choose a stroller that you can easily push with one hand. One that has ample storage underneath for a diaper bag, that folds up easy and is light-weight enough to lift in and out of the car.

3. Feed and put all your babies to bed at the same time.

You are going to need help. If your babies have different schedules, slowly adjust their feeding schedules until they become the same. Feeding your babies together allows you some time to rest and recoup in between.

4. Buy care seat covers.

People are curious about multiples. When you need to take your babies out, you may see a lot of people coming to you, asking questions about them. Having the covers will keep people from surrounding you all the time. It also provides the shades so your babies can have a decent nap.

5. Use Rock N’ Play sleepers instead of the normal bassinets.

Babies love those sleepers. Since they are small, you will not have any difficulty putting two or more in your bedroom. You can even fold the sleepers up and carry them around if needed.

6. Bond with each baby.

Set time to hold and cuddle each baby so that no one is left unloved. Bonding with your babies helps you understand their personalities and needs, which will be handing in taking care of them.

7. Consider hired help.

Your friends and family are often willing to offer lots of help and advice. But they cannot always be there for you. Many parents find hiring professionals is extremely practical while caring for twins.

It is hard to share love with more than one person at once. But as a mother, it is your responsibility to give love to all of your children. Raising multiples is challenging. Fortunately, with love and effort, you will befriend it eventually.